Last night I had my least favorite recurring dream, the missed flight dream.
Are you familiar with this nightmare? You’re supposed to take a trip but you’re running hopelessly late. In mine I’m miles from the airport, have not packed, have not even dressed and my airplane is leaving in 30 minutes. Every single time.
I hate every moment and still, it keeps coming back to me.
Yesterday, I finally realized why.
I have this dream because I have sloths.
SONS! I mean, I have sons.
I have three wonderful sons whose range of speed goes something like this:
Impossibly Slower than That
Not Moving at All.
My everyday existence is a miss-flight-mare, no matter what is on our agenda.
Me: “The movie starts in a half an hour.”
Son speed: turtle.
Me: “If we leave now, we can go to the game store before it closes.”
Son speed: turtle with a broken leg.
Me: “There is a man outside giving away tickets to Disneyland for anyone who can get to him in 5 minutes.”
Son speed: turtle with a broken leg riding on the back of a dead snail.
Yes these are teenagers, yes they have boundless energy, yes it makes no sense, and yes I am not exaggerating.
Yesterday I told my son (still in bed and pajamas even though I’d spent the last 2 hours telling him to get ready) that we were leaving in 10 minutes. When I checked on him five minutes later the only advancement he had made was to take his shirt off.
When I asked him if he was ready know what he said?
“In what universe?” I cried. “By what stretch of the imagination are you “almost” ready to go? A blind fish on tranquilizers could get out of this house faster than you!”
Kidding. I didn’t say any of that.
Telling a teen to hurry is like honking at someone because you want their parking spot.
You think it will speed things, the opposite happens.
Anyway he was moving, we hadn’t hit full stop yet. And besides it is far more important that he understands no matter what, I love wine…
HIM! I mean, No matter what I love him…
Stop laughing Wine. That was totally believable! Hey I had that dream again, are you free later?